CuteCouple,
We have to wonder that with your desire for only safe sex and understandable desire to avoid any possibilities of disease why you would even swing with these people at all if you know they don't use condoms on a regular basis? Keep in mind that no matter what you use to protect yourself it is not going to be 100% effective and there is still risk involved. It would seem to me that you would take that extra precaution of choosing your swing partners more selectively and sticking only to those who have your same desire for safe sex.
As far as what Julie said, we'd have to agree with CyberMWCouple, I think you took what she said too personally when she was only trying to get you to see things from both sides. Maybe in the future you will be more clear with those you wish to swing with on your desires. All you have to do is read through the posts here to see that there are plenty of swingers who have no clue what a dental dam is or at the least have never seen one used. We've been to plenty of swinger parties and been swinging for close to 5 years and while we know what a dental dam is and have seen them in stores, have yet to see one used.
S&J |