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Originally posted by CuteCouple:
Julie- I've given your post a whole lot of thought before reposting as I am intrigued that it is seemes that my bf and I are suddenly becoming the "bad guys" because we want to protect ourselves... |
CuteCouple:
NO ONE is accusing you of being the bad guys here. I think Julie's point was quite clear, that perhaps there were some assumptions made by the other couple that 'safe sex' meant condoms for intercourse only. It's interpreted to mean just that by the vast majority of swingers, and most likely including the couple you were with last night.
We realize last night is still fresh on your minds, but don't let it cloud your judgement on what others are saying to you in here. Look through the post archives on this site and you'll see one word being repeated over and over. COMMUNICATION. It's key in forming and maintaining a successful swinging relationship with another couple or single.
Dan