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CuteCouple · 07-29-2001, 06:19 PM

Julie- I've given your post a whole lot of thought before reposting as I am intrigued that it is seemes that my bf and I are suddenly becoming the "bad guys" because we want to protect ourselves from not only AIDS but syhillis, gonnoreah, herpes, ect.... Whether or not that it's as common or not is really not the issue, gd it should be!! I don't see what the big deal is, it's only a thin sheet of latex that gets placed over the vagina, no more than wearing a condom and yes, I want the other men to use dams on me as well because they should be concerned about the spread of disease themselves. If we were all behaving responsibly then AIDS wouldn't be killing so many people and I'm certainly not going to let it kill me or my bf because of a stupid piece of latex! If we can't find a couple who is interested in safe sex as we are then we will just have to keep doing it with each other... darn, such is life!!!!

Yes, it is my partly my fault to think "safe sex" meant condoms for the guys and dams for the girls, sorry I wasn't aware that people were so ignorant and had such a disregard for their own health but she didn't have to throw a hissy fit and leave. It was about safe sex, not about her cleanliness, odour, or whatever and my bf tried to explain that to her. In the future I'll make sure to spell it out in real big letters before there is even a meeting, so that nobody wastes their time... especially the people who are going around getting it on, having oral, anal ect... and not even bothering with protection!!!

My bf doesn't want to eat pussy raw and as I mentioned I am the second and hopefully last that he will have oral without protection, and that's his choice and especially after he heard that this woman had several parters, no mention of condoms, and men cuming in her mouth at a recent party... In addition, he doesn't want me exposing myself to disease by having unprotected oral, so why would he? Maybe the risks aren't the same as having sex or anal but read the facts, there is a risk and we should be respected in our desire to protect ourselves...so maybe we are UPTIGHT but I think we're being damn smart and in the long run, we'll take our piece of latex and at least still be alive...or without any other disgusting diseases.

07-29-2001, 06:19 PM	#6 (permalink)
CuteCouple Active Member Join Date: Jul 2001 Posts: 19 Location: Cornwall, ON, Canada	Julie- I've given your post a whole lot of thought before reposting as I am intrigued that it is seemes that my bf and I are suddenly becoming the "bad guys" because we want to protect ourselves from not only AIDS but syhillis, gonnoreah, herpes, ect.... Whether or not that it's as common or not is really not the issue, gd it should be!! I don't see what the big deal is, it's only a thin sheet of latex that gets placed over the vagina, no more than wearing a condom and yes, I want the other men to use dams on me as well because they should be concerned about the spread of disease themselves. If we were all behaving responsibly then AIDS wouldn't be killing so many people and I'm certainly not going to let it kill me or my bf because of a stupid piece of latex! If we can't find a couple who is interested in safe sex as we are then we will just have to keep doing it with each other... darn, such is life!!!! Yes, it is my partly my fault to think "safe sex" meant condoms for the guys and dams for the girls, sorry I wasn't aware that people were so ignorant and had such a disregard for their own health but she didn't have to throw a hissy fit and leave. It was about safe sex, not about her cleanliness, odour, or whatever and my bf tried to explain that to her. In the future I'll make sure to spell it out in real big letters before there is even a meeting, so that nobody wastes their time... especially the people who are going around getting it on, having oral, anal ect... and not even bothering with protection!!! My bf doesn't want to eat pussy raw and as I mentioned I am the second and hopefully last that he will have oral without protection, and that's his choice and especially after he heard that this woman had several parters, no mention of condoms, and men cuming in her mouth at a recent party... In addition, he doesn't want me exposing myself to disease by having unprotected oral, so why would he? Maybe the risks aren't the same as having sex or anal but read the facts, there is a risk and we should be respected in our desire to protect ourselves...so maybe we are UPTIGHT but I think we're being damn smart and in the long run, we'll take our piece of latex and at least still be alive...or without any other disgusting diseases.