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07-29-2001, 03:01 PM

You did nothing wrong.

Especially since, all of you knew what was expected by each other in the FIRST place, while communicating your rules with them!

If this female of the other couple felt uncomfortable by this "action", then she should've said something about it BEFORE, or even "during" this sexual session.

Have you two been in contact with them since then? Have you both talked about this with them yet? Communication should always be openminded between all involved...May be harder for some, then others.

If this couple, or ANY other couple and or single(s) can't respect your wishes, then they're not for you, and it's their loss!

I'm glad that you both stuck by what is very important to both of you and your relationship! Don't EVER have to feel obligated in ANY way by others to change, unless it's comfortable enough for the BOTH of you as well...

Hope everything works out for all of you! Good luck and keep us posted.

CyberWife

[This message has been edited by CyberMWCouple (edited 07-30-2001).]

07-29-2001, 03:01 PM	#3 (permalink)
CyberMWCouple Posts: n/a	You did nothing wrong. Especially since, all of you knew what was expected by each other in the FIRST place, while communicating your rules with them! If this female of the other couple felt uncomfortable by this "action", then she should've said something about it BEFORE, or even "during" this sexual session. Have you two been in contact with them since then? Have you both talked about this with them yet? Communication should always be openminded between all involved...May be harder for some, then others. If this couple, or ANY other couple and or single(s) can't respect your wishes, then they're not for you, and it's their loss! I'm glad that you both stuck by what is very important to both of you and your relationship! Don't EVER have to feel obligated in ANY way by others to change, unless it's comfortable enough for the BOTH of you as well... Hope everything works out for all of you! Good luck and keep us posted. CyberWife [This message has been edited by CyberMWCouple (edited 07-30-2001).]