[CandTinLorainCo]

Well James good question.... here's my (mo) on that. We had swung for 6-8 mo.'s w/vanilla friends whom at the time it all started with them we niether one knew we were swingers. While our friendship blossomed the swinging part became more intense and it appeared all was going along perfectly, everyone meshed in and out of the bedroom things WERE great. Then it started changing.... "wait don't I's" set in, the "hey, but when I did this or that...." and so on. Needless to say alot of time and emotions were exhausted and fear and hurt set in, now were tryin to save the friendship and forgo the benifits with them.... I'm telling you it almost cost all 4 of us everything we had built... so friends? Maybe swing friends and just Vanilla friends but not both.

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