Believe this or not, in almost 5 years of swinging, we've only been with other couples. We have
never had a 3some with either a guy or a girl. But we've been wanting to for a while now, and guess what? We've got a big date tonight! I got thinking about it, and the reason that we've never had any single guy horror stories is because we've never gotten any further than email with them! I guess maybe we're a little over-cautious, but we were always happy meeting with couples so the supposed extra risk of meeting singles didn't appeal to us much. I'm sure there are some on the board (for example, the Naughties) who would disagree that singles are riskier than couples, but the lifestyle is different for different couples.
So. Here I am, shaving my legs and curling my hair, picking out something to wear, packing our bag (yet another 3-hour drive), and more nervous now than I was before meeting couples. Why you ask? Good question. Maybe it has something to do with me feeling like I'm in the spotlight up on a stage or something. Mr. intuition is straight as an arrow, and has no interest in changing his mind. So this show's all about me. I just don't know how to be comfortable being the centre of attention!
I guess I just wanted to vent, guys. I'm feeling a bit like a cat clinging to the ceiling by the claws right now (you know, like Sylvester the cat in the episode where he and Porky went to the haunted hotel?). *sigh* Somebody talk me down!
Nothing may happen at all tonight; it's supposed to be just meet & greet. But we
are staying over, so you never know how things will go. Anybody have any advice? Is there anything we should know or think ahead about that would be different from swinging with couples? We have experience with swinging...just not with singles.
Thanks everybody!
