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Originally Posted by EvilMJ when you are feeling unsure like this, then it is going to eat you up inside. |
Exactly! A great reason why not to mix swinging and work and also to swing together. Of course many people swing separately and do fine but it's not for most because of stuff like this. If things needed to be even, which they don't, then you're more than even anyway. I suggest if she wants to be in the lifestyle that you get into it together and go that route. There are PLENTY of options out there to satisfy both of you. It will be a bit of a drag for her to have to break off something that is so much fun for her, but she should be understanding of your feelings and that should be that. Honestly, they all sound like they've been selfish to me, your wife included. Hopefully it's only a short-term thing with the wife and who really cares about the other couple.