It amazes me that I am being moderated for my "attacks". The whole point of view some of you share on this thread is that the wife should take no responsibility in this scenario. The ONLY way that point of view can be correct is if it is, in fact, acceptible to pass out to the point of unconsciousness due to voluntary actions, in this case excessive drinking, and expect nothing bad to ever happen.
If this is truly what you believe you are not thinking correctly....sorry....it's just that simple. No matter how badly you feel for the wife (or any other in a similar situation) there is no way to believe that had she retained even a hint of consciousness that this would have happened. Just an ounce of awareness and she certainly would not have accepted the advances of the boss. Right?
So in the spirit of assuming we most certainly should all come to agree on this most obvious point, it should then be easy to point out that the wife MUST take some responsibility for what happened. This doesn't make what the two guys did ANY less repulsive, they still had NO business doing what they did. And YES, what they did WAS way worse than anything she did(she didn't really "do" anything, but I'm referring to her bad judgement in passing out unconscious). But in many of the posts she has been defended to a fault and these poor judgementally based actions have been as well....The point that I have been apparently unable to make(until now?) is that to rid her of any responsibilty is promoting that it is ok to be out of control and go through life making poor decisions and just assuming that everything is going to be ok. Everything is not ok, obviously!!
At NO time in any of my posts have I even hinted that the actions were ok, even though it has been said that I have. I have explained this previously but some continue to read and selectively remember the parts they want to remember.
If this doesn't clear things up completely then I feel our world is far worse off than I give it credit for......
p.s. I sure hope that wasn't too offensive....
