I can't relate, I can't wear a lot of tops because I don't fill them out. But what I wanted to tell you what a friend of mine did to make her bras cuter. She could never find cute bras that fit her so she took a couple of plain bras and embellished them. The only bra I saw is one where she hand sewed small daisy appliques from where the strap meets all the way across the top outlining the main part of the bra with daisies. It was just adorable! There are so many different kinds of embellishments that can be applied to a bra, all you need is a craft store nearby and a vivid imagination.
A year ago at a quilt festival they had an exhibition of embellished bras and some of them were really neat to see. They weren't anything I would actually wear but they could be inspiring.
HERE is the exhibition of bras I saw. The one with the appliqued butterflies is my favorite.