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Old 06-06-2005, 10:21 PM   #11 (permalink)
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Default Re: unsure emotions

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Originally Posted by bicpl4adultfun
She hasn't been with another woman in quite some time. I know that she really has her heart set on this. One part of me wants this, the other part of me doesn't. Should I let her do this and just deal with my emotions afterwards?
You are sweet, bicpl4adultfun for wanting to give your wife what she wants. However, remember to not sacrifice your happiness & level of comfort in doing so.

If you are uncomfortable, please tell her before anything happens.

Do you two frequently allow solo play or is this new territory for your relationship?
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