 Wife Playing with Co Workers Husband Feeling Left Out
My wife and I have swung before with a couple friend of ours/hers. My delima is that she started a new part time job about a month ago, while at this job she and another employee started flirting with each other, (she is bi) he is straight with a bi wife. She came home one night from work and asked if she could sleep with him, finding the idea exciting, I agreed. I like to have her tell me about her past experiances while we have sex. originally they were going to get a room at a motel. since then, it has now become, her going to his place to have sex with him AND his wife. I said that I wanted to be involved if his wife was. He does not want me to be there. This is their first time to do this. He has said that he can't perform with me in the room. My issue with the whole situation, (which has put me on an emotional rollercoaster) is that my wife really wants to do this. And being that I had already told her OK, I don't know what to do? She hasn't been with another woman in quite some time. I know that she really has her heart set on this. One part of me wants this, the other part of me doesn't. Should I let her do this and just deal with my emotions afterwards?
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