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Old 06-06-2005, 03:42 PM   #12 (permalink)
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Default Re: When good swinging goes bad

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Originally Posted by islandgirl
Friends.....where do you draw the line with any friends......the money discussion for me is a big one certainly, I grew up in an environment where money, religion and politics were discussions not for the dinner table, and avoided as much as possible....I believe that is a good thing for the most part though the religion and politics can be fun to debate with the right people at the right time.
We adhere to the same guidelines. We never discuss money, religion or politics with aquaintances. We may have some friendly debates with our close friends regarding religion or politics, but only if they're the type of people that can discuss those topics without jumping on their soapbox.

I also always make an effort never to talk negatively about my spouse/children to people. We're a team and if I put him/them down to others, I put myself down as well by doing so.
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