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Old 06-06-2005, 01:27 PM   #1 (permalink)
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In this recent post by ppdp, she was wondering if perhaps the reason her husband will not allow playtime with men is because he may be suppressing a secret bi attraction to men.

There is that theory that some men that might question their own sexuality are not comfortable around gay/bi men at all or other men in sexual situations.

I'm NOT saying that all men that are uncomfortable around other naked men in play situations are gay or bi or anything, but I'm wondering if some men could be.

I'd really like to hear people's opinions about this, especially from the bisexual men who maybe struggled with being able to admit their attractions to the opposite sex in the past.

*Once again, I'm not saying that ALL men that don't like to get naked around other men are secretly gay/bi. Some men just don't like to because they just don't.
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