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Originally Posted by biblonde rape=rape=rape, molest=molest=molest!!! |
A good explanation of why we're seeing things differently. It's apparently all black and white to you where I, crazy as this may sound, feel that a violent rape attack of a child (extreme example but it makes a point...whether you understand it or not) is not quite the same as the nipple-licking we're talking about here.
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Originally Posted by biblonde those that think this is no big deal I have have to say is THANK GOD!! I am not married to you! |
And vice-versa. As my example shows, I think there is a grey area and THANK-GOD my wife is not one who can't see that and not someone who over-reacts and has such little tolerance or respect for opinions of others.
There is no disagreement between anyone here on whether this was wrong or not. The guy was wrong, he screwed up, we all agree on that. But whether a punishment like divorce fits the crime or not is where we're apparently not all agreeing. My opinion is that it does not and I really don't give a crap if anyone here agrees with that or not. Again, I'm not CONDONING what he did, I'm simply saying from my perspective the punishment does not
necessarily fit the crime. There are a lot more variables here like little details that we don't know about and what type of personality and relationship they've got that factor into how she should react and what they should do about it. It's not all black and white with everyone and if you can't understand that there's not much I can do about that.