 Re: When good swinging goes bad
Your right there is an emotional attatchment and really I have no answer on how to not become that way. I love that feeling of being safe and freedom you have with someone you trust and feel close to. The loss is always hard to deal with. We have never tried to set emotional boundries other than dont tell either of us you love us (in that way..we had a lady ask hubby to marry her after they finished playing which I didnt think was funny in any way!!) but other than that we like the friendship to build and go in whatever direction it takes us. Which I guess kinda sets us up for heartache at times...but that is life I guess.
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