biblonde, why would you edit out what your Mr. posted?
IF this discussion is too heated for you, remember it's the internet...it is NOT your life....you have sounded HAPPY with your man...let it go and enjoy that fact in your life.
What happened to someone else and how they cope and how all of us would cope and think and feel different from you...is just that. Different from you.
And as others can probably read...we didn't blame her. We blamed everyone.