Re: What should I say? Vespertine,
I didn't mean it to sound that way. Everyones opinion is just that...their opinion. And people do change as life alters them. Sorry if you took it as a slam toward yours. My view is that to stay together takes lots of communication, tolerance and forgiveness. My view of your POV was that you said I might be compelled to look for another husband, too. And that seems like you are advocating divorce over attempting to work thru life as partners. I suspect I see people as a whole as more screwed up and likely to make even bad mistakes that they can learn from, than you do...but I'm guessing that by how I interpret your posts. It's super hard to communicate on message boards but I love trying anyway cuz it can make me think. (And feel and flame and well...grow as a human).
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