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Old 06-05-2005, 05:00 PM   #76 (permalink)
Vespertine
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Default Re: What should I say?

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Originally Posted by tribbles
Vespertine-I'm glad you and your hubby view it the same way since it means you two are in tune. Be aware that others of who view it differently are no less in tune and no more right or wrong except for themselves. NO ONE has said what he did was right. That has not been an issue. It's more a matter of degree of wrongness (speeding vs killing...big difference) that we are discussing. And how each of us could forgive or not forgive errors in judgement.
Hmm...

I'm puzzled tribbles.

All I did was express my opinion of the situation. My opinion is that the situation is unforgivable. I never said "Hey! You're wrong because you don't agree with me!". I simply stated my opinion to the OP who posted, asking for opinions.

You said (to me): "Be aware that others of who view it differently are no less in tune and no more right or wrong except for themselves."

Please read your advice to me, and heed it. I believe you were the one to point out that I must be young or not married long enough to fully understand forgiveness, thus implying that my opinion has no merrit.
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