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Originally Posted by EvilMJ It's hard to comprehend the mentality that accuses the woman of having done anything wrong in this particular situation. It doesn't matter how drunk you are, that does NOT give anyone the right to rape, molest, manhandle, what have you. She has done absolutely nothing wrong. |
Thinking that getting drunk to the point of passing out at a company party does nothing to harm the relationship is being blind to the effects of drug abuse and alcohol abuse on a relationship, IMO. As others have said in this thread, she is at fault as well.
Vespertine-I'm glad you and your hubby view it the same way since it means you two are in tune. Be aware that others of who view it differently are no less in tune and no more right or wrong except for themselves. NO ONE has said what he did was right. That has not been an issue. It's more a matter of degree of wrongness (speeding vs killing...big difference) that we are discussing. And how each of us could forgive or not forgive errors in judgement.
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I doubt if the penal system could afford to put them behind bars, biblonde. Maybe probation and court ordered counseling?
I want my tax dollars spend locking up the truly dangerous ones. As for marrying a REAL man...what, you think the rest of the males aren't really XY? Since there are more screw ups than saints, maybe it's those you call real men who are XYY? Genetic testing is available (Ok tongue in cheek....it's just one of those nutty social buttons that is pointless to push in a discussion other than to stir up emotion..IMO again)