[EvilMJ]

It's hard to comprehend the mentality that accuses the woman of having done anything wrong in this particular situation. It doesn't matter how drunk you are, that does NOT give anyone the right to rape, molest, manhandle, what have you. She has done absolutely nothing wrong.

He voilated her trust, he allowed a man (who she repeatedly rejected) who was in a position of power in her work life purposely use her in a sexual manner. She now has to face this man on a day to day basis...her husband does not.

Maybe she will be able to find it in her heart to work through this and forgive him. I don't think it is possible to make light of this matter, it is quite serious and I think her husband needs to come to the realization that his wife is not something that he can hand around to just any horney old bastard that wants a lick, it doesn't work that way. When you get married you made a promise to love and support that person. Sure my husband has made mistakes, so have I, and we forgave each other. But this is beyond the realm of stupid mistakes.

I think it is natural that we are all going to have differing opinons but I don't think you have to be married a long time or be of any particular age to realize that this guy was wrong. This isn't a case of hubby got drunk and made a fool of himself, it is a case of allowing his wife to be used in a way that is both demeaning and disrespectful. - there is only so much forgiveness to go around and some situations crack the foundation of a marriage so badly that you can't repair it.