 Re: What should I say?
"OHHH I didnt suggest he go to jail I was saying that it was something that could happen. It is illegal to molest someone was my point."
...... c'mon now, you can't have it both ways......either he has done something he should go to jail for or he hasn't. Someone who molests, or allows it to happen SHOULD ABSOLUTELY go to jail....no if's and's or but's. But that's not what happened here.....in a moment of altered thinking, pervertedly kinky heat of the moment bad judgement some person allowed a booby to get sucked. Holy shit I bet that booby will never be able to be used again. Never again will it come to see the light of day, never again will it be able to be felt by another's hand, never again will it.....well you get my point. That lil' booby will be just fine.....
He SHOULD get his ass chewed out just the same as if he had done one of the many other things he has and will continue to do wrong or innappropriately as all people do. Now if he makes the same mistake again.....yeah....now he deserves to be left, but in my opinion anyone who says they'd leave their spouse over one big foul-up is either not thinking straight, lying, wanting to sound super tough and in control, or just plain doesn't have that strong of a connection in their relationship. I would NEVER and I repeat NEVER leave my wife for one act of indiscretion or screw up. Everyone is entitled to screw up.....just learn from it and don't do it again. And I believe that this is exactly what Mr. Showmywife'stits is in the process of doing.
Is the trust issue gonna be there for a while? Sure, probably so, but let's all (most of the respondants) just breeeeaaathhe...and remember the perspective thing.
What I'm most surprised about is that given today's overreacting greedy-ass do anything for a buck society that there has been no discussion of suing the boss for 100 million dollars for "pain and suffering". |