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Originally Posted by tribbles So you have been there, done that in your own form and stayed together and grown from it. And NOW if something happened it would be awful. But for this couple, what if this is not an old, fixed issue, revisited...but more like the past issues you have already dealt with? New to them?
I took the view it was NEW for them, not an old hurt opened again. Big difference, IMO.
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I agree there is a huge difference. Sometimes I find it difficult to remember that the things Mr. and I are now 'enlightened' about - so to speak - the things that are as plain as the noses on our faces to us, are not nearly so obvious to others who haven't been there, done that.
I have to keep reminding myself that not everyone's relationship reflects the same extreme intensity in such matters as ours might.
Sorry for the skewed POV, folks! Just ignore me
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