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Old 06-04-2005, 02:26 PM   #58 (permalink)
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Default Re: What should I say?

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Originally Posted by Mrs Spoomonkey
We have all voiced our opinions here based on our experiences and relationships to our spouse and she may surprise us all and laugh it off. I think that would be the most unlikely scenerio but anything can happen.

Mrs Spoomonkey
I agree with Mrs. Spoo. Reactions depend on the person/relationship, entirely. I just think that when the reality of what happened sinks in, there are going to be some very hurt feelings. Then again, maybe it'll be water off a duck's back. From my perspective, and in my own relationship, the reaction would be a bit more extreme. Mr. and I have had issues of our own in our relationship...nothing quite like this, but the bottom line is there were times that we weren't there for each other when it counted the most. We've worked past that and really grown from it. We've sworn to each other than we would do everything in our power to never allow one another to be hurt again. So keeping in mind we have a history of trust issues, yeah!! this would be huge deal! I just know that I wouldn't want to be in either of their shoes! What a rotten situation.
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