ok.....you reeled me in....I think this is being blown WAAAAAY out of proportion. This is really quite simple: wife makes error in judgement(gets sloshed out of control at a business related social event(or anywhere for that matter)), boss makes error in judgement(eyes/makes advancements toward employee in a sexual way), husband makes error in judgement(allows wifes boobs to be seen/touched without her permission).
......were they all the wrong things to do, of course, but please, let's try to use some perspective here!!! I once (ok, maybe a couple times) banged someone out of drunken stupidity(error in judgement) that I would have under no circumstances ever done if I had my full faculties about me. I was a little pissed the next day that I had done it, but that's about it. Sure, I coulda been pissed at my friends(which in college are about the equivalent to a spouse
) for letting it happen, and could've felt violated and I suppose I could've even taken a 3 hour shower, but I find it's best to put things in perspective properly.
I still have all 4 limbs(thank you), my home is still standing strong(thank you), and at least for the moment I can still afford to put gas in my car which is still running well(thank you, thank you).
Again to wrap up, 3 people screwed up, a couple boobs were felt, and now 3 people should feel a little ticked off maybe........THAT'S IT !