Well heres my thoughts....and I bet alot of people agree..
First off, my hubby and I are fairly new to the lifestyle, but we do share OUR FANTASIES with each other. Thats what got us IN the "lifestyle"...
Now for us it is very simple...we love str8 mfm 3somes!!!! and as far as we are concerned a SINGLE MAN is our CUP OF TEA for the simple reason..No pissed off wife is going to hunt us down for revenge!!!! Yes we do prefer friendship and I'm not the kind of woman that likes to be treated like a slut! Only gentlemen are welcome here....And guys there is plenty of you that are WONDERFUL GENTLEMEN and THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU!!!!
Ok that being said....we would also like to have a bi-fmf relationship as well, but thats a bit harded to find. I think due to the stigma on womens sexuality "I'll be labeled a slut!" But I'm sure in time we will cum across the perfect situation for that.
We are listed as seeking couples also, but it is slow going at first, but should meet some couples soon. wooohooo
Now, I don't think we are wanting to CHEAT on each other....for goodness sakes!!! we all have our differant wants and needs and should NEVER JUDGE others in the lifestyle because of their fantasies!!!!
NOT EVEN SINGLE MEN.....that are gentlemen....
As for the guys in it for the F***.....not for us....but some may prefer it!!