Undecided, I've heard that
LibChrist is a great site for those struggling with religious issues. Kathy, is that the one you meant?
To answer one of your other questions, no, I've never been afraid that Janet would perfer someone else over me. We truly are life partners and after all the things we've been through together, I think I can safely say that there is nothing that would break us apart. That's one of the reasons swinging works for us.
-B