The Swingers Board - View Single Post - Undecided about swinging, he is ready but wanting different things

Undecided · 06-03-2005, 02:50 PM

Kathy, thxs for ur reply

Did you ever feel that your husband might prefer someone else over you?

When you first started having an open marriage did you ever get jealous and find out it wasnt such a big deal after all?

My husband says he loves me and there is no one else before me, but i cant help feeling jealous (naturally) at the thought of him having sex with another single person. a married one doesnt bother me b/c that person is already commited to someone else. So in a sense safer. He doesnt understand this either.

I already know what he wants out of being with another person. He wants to experince other people sexually. We were both raised in a very strict reliegous families. We werent allowed to date or have sex until we were married

I wouldn't mind experincing other men, but i cant help but have some of that reliogous gobldygoop still ingrained in my head.

06-03-2005, 02:50 PM	#6 (permalink)
Undecided Registered Join Date: Jun 2005 Posts: 5 Location: VA	Re: Undecided please help Kathy, thxs for ur reply Did you ever feel that your husband might prefer someone else over you? When you first started having an open marriage did you ever get jealous and find out it wasnt such a big deal after all? My husband says he loves me and there is no one else before me, but i cant help feeling jealous (naturally) at the thought of him having sex with another single person. a married one doesnt bother me b/c that person is already commited to someone else. So in a sense safer. He doesnt understand this either. I already know what he wants out of being with another person. He wants to experince other people sexually. We were both raised in a very strict reliegous families. We werent allowed to date or have sex until we were married I wouldn't mind experincing other men, but i cant help but have some of that reliogous gobldygoop still ingrained in my head.