Undecided about swinging, he is ready but wanting different things
Hi Everyone,
My husband and I have thought about swinging and have talked to a few couples but never went any further than that. I am not against the idea of swinging but I am not exactly all excited about it. I am still getting used to the idea and my husband wants to get on with it. I told him I need time but he seems to be fustrated with me taking my time. He wants to also experince singles which makes me a bit jealous. I feel that every time i try to tell him to slow down he gets fustrated and upset. And then I am like "whatever do what you want"
I wouldn't mind meeting couples but he would prefer singles on a one on one basis. Which again im not all for it, i dont know what to do. Sometimse the one on one with singles sounds cool then i get jealous and I dont want to do it anymore. other times again it doesnt bother me. I dont understand why i go back and forth.
Any one have any advice?
Thanks
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