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Originally Posted by curiousagain OK, we probably aren't going to hear back from the OP, I like to play devils advocate, I like to philosiphize sometimes, I'm bored. Bear with me.
We aren't cutting the Husband any slack because he was alcohol impaired, but evidently everybody was, including the wife who was incapicitated by alcohol voluntarily. Now obviously, since the boss had hit on her dispite her being married beforehand, he deserves the castration/crucifixion at dawn we all wish on him whether sober or inebriated. But, if the husband had been incapacitated and the wife impaired and she had allowed this as her husband was unable to protest, would we be ripping her a new one?? Would we say, "she was drunk"? We have all done or allowed to be done things, while drunk we would not while sober. Admit it, think back, you know you have. I will be the first to raise my hand. I'm not looking to start a flamethrow I am just wondering.
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I can't rembeber if I said in my reply about this before, so i'll clarify:
I am not excusing the wife for getting so wasted she wasnt in control of her own decisions. She is going to have to accept responsibility for her own actions, in this case the lack there of. However, I do hold the husband 9 and definately the pig boss) more responcible for not putting a stop to this in the beginning. My husband would most definately kick arse if someone tried this while I was incapasitated in any form. As I would for him. Its a basic respect for another person. Even if it was him trying to subcounsiously get even for her getting into that position, it wasnt right. If the shoe was on the other foot, I bet he would have been at least a little pissed.
As far as being alcohol impaired.. I never cut anyone slack for that. thats just me though. I am a firm believer in whatever you do, do it in moderation. I have had my fair share of drunken or stoned stupidity. I still had to accept my responsibility for what I did. Let me tell you, some of it was super stupid. Either be able to control yourself and be able to make sound judgement calls or dont do it. I think there are zero innocents in this case. Just some are more guilty than others.