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Two4funinpa · 05-31-2005, 12:25 PM

I agree seperate party's would be the safest. We have close neighbor friends who are aware that we have walked at least once on the wild side of life...and they blame me..."the female half ...it is all my fault" and this was about 4 years ago. We we confronted by them and we were honest with our reply... We have considered mixing vanillia friends and spicy friends at a pool party but have chickened out because we still have to live here. We fear it would not go well even though our vanillia friends are not a dull stuffed shirt group in any way. Just that the stigma still pops it's head out of the shurbs evey now and then and it has been four years... they think we only tried it once. Not that we have been and still practice this for 7 plus years. Seperate party's will save a lot of hard feelings....I would really becareful to even have the swing party at your home...especially if some of those who were invited to the vanilla party live close by...so you don't have any surprise guests show up when they hear the party going on.

05-31-2005, 12:25 PM	#12 (permalink)
Two4funinpa Registered Join Date: Feb 2005 Posts: 5 Location: PA Status: couple Swing Lifestyle Name:Two4funinpa	Re: Birthday party dilemma???? I agree seperate party's would be the safest. We have close neighbor friends who are aware that we have walked at least once on the wild side of life...and they blame me..."the female half ...it is all my fault" and this was about 4 years ago. We we confronted by them and we were honest with our reply... We have considered mixing vanillia friends and spicy friends at a pool party but have chickened out because we still have to live here. We fear it would not go well even though our vanillia friends are not a dull stuffed shirt group in any way. Just that the stigma still pops it's head out of the shurbs evey now and then and it has been four years... they think we only tried it once. Not that we have been and still practice this for 7 plus years. Seperate party's will save a lot of hard feelings....I would really becareful to even have the swing party at your home...especially if some of those who were invited to the vanilla party live close by...so you don't have any surprise guests show up when they hear the party going on.