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Originally Posted by jr555666 ...he's just a horny selfish guy who saw an opening and went for it. |
Think about it. You've described yourself.
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...but he did look to me for an ok and i gave it to him. i'm trying to figure out why i did...i was almost glad this fat old guy got to see her chest.
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Because you're a horny selfish guy who was turned on and empowered by handing your wife to her boss - a "fat old guy."
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...what is scary is thinking about if i would have let it go farther...
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If you're thinking about it now, you were considering it then.
I'll admit that I feel like kicking your butt. At the same time the less emotional side of my head thinks this:
You've shown remorse and are not defending your actions. This is positive. You have only shared one tiny part of your life with us here and I must consider this to keep things in perspective. You and your wife will have to compare this event to how your relationship has gone up to now. If there is enough good, then this error in judgment can be dealt with in a way that could move you to a better place in life. Hopefully, you'll both grow through this individually, and as a couple.
LM