The Swingers Board - View Single Post

TheGeek · 05-31-2005, 10:38 AM

I want to second this. We also just had our first experience with another couple, and the swapping stayed on the oral side. We brought condoms, and when the other woman was about to start down on me I started to ask "Do you want me to wear a condom?" but by the time I got to the word 'wear' my dick was already touching her tonsils.

I've heard, but not necessarily from reputible sources, that most STDs, even AIDS, don't thrive so well in the acids found in the oral cavity. Is this even partly true, or just a myth?

Also, a slightly different condom issue: I haven't had to use one for years. My wife was always on birth control, and then last year I got a vasectomy so she could quit. My dick is just large enough that putting on a condom isn't very easy, and the other night when I tried, I would get so frustrated trying to get the damn thing on that I'd lose my erection.

Does anyone have any advice, beyond the obvious 'practice practice practice' on how to get used to wearing condoms again? Also, are there 'large' condoms, and if so, what size guys are they made for? (I'm about 8" long, 2" thick)

Thanks in advance for your comments!

--J. the Geek

05-31-2005, 10:38 AM	#2 (permalink)
TheGeek Active Member Join Date: Mar 2005 Posts: 26 Location: Birmingham, AL Status: M. Male Swing Lifestyle Name:cantwait29	Newbies: Condom usage I want to second this. We also just had our first experience with another couple, and the swapping stayed on the oral side. We brought condoms, and when the other woman was about to start down on me I started to ask "Do you want me to wear a condom?" but by the time I got to the word 'wear' my dick was already touching her tonsils. I've heard, but not necessarily from reputible sources, that most STDs, even AIDS, don't thrive so well in the acids found in the oral cavity. Is this even partly true, or just a myth? Also, a slightly different condom issue: I haven't had to use one for years. My wife was always on birth control, and then last year I got a vasectomy so she could quit. My dick is just large enough that putting on a condom isn't very easy, and the other night when I tried, I would get so frustrated trying to get the damn thing on that I'd lose my erection. Does anyone have any advice, beyond the obvious 'practice practice practice' on how to get used to wearing condoms again? Also, are there 'large' condoms, and if so, what size guys are they made for? (I'm about 8" long, 2" thick) Thanks in advance for your comments! --J. the Geek