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Originally Posted by jr555666 You are right i failed her. I don't think he is a swinger and as far as i know he has no idea we have. he's just a horny selfish guy who saw an opening and went for it. he had hit on her several times before and she wanted no part. Wendy is a very attractive, fit gal who is more than young enough to be his daughter, not that age really matters. but he did look to me for an ok and i gave it to him. i'm trying to figure out why i did. i know it was wrong on every level. and i regret it. but in that moment i got lost in, i was almost glad this fat old guy got to see her chest. i know, that is awful! what is scary is thinking about if i would have let it go farther ... but yes, i need to tell her and before tomorrow when she goes to work. |
Not that it wasn't bad already but knowing he had made advances toward her and she refused him and then you let him get away with that!
You should have looked him in the eye and said "I believe my wife has said no to before so the answer is still NO! I can take care of her from here" and then made him leave the room.
You need to hope your wife is more forgiving then I would be this is a major breech of trust and security. You need to be thinking of how you're going to earn her trust again, and brace yourself it may take a long, long time.
I feel sorry for your wife, I can't imagine trying to work everyday with my boss knowing he got away with something (allowed by my spouse) that I had flat out let him know there was no way.
Mrs Spoomonkey