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Seems like most everything that needs to be said has been. But, I have to ditto that she will hear about it from somebody at some point. The earlier she hears about it from YOU, the better it will be for everybody.

Alcohol is like a lot of things, it can be medicine or poison, depending on the amount used. It may have been a factor in poisoning your relationship with your wife in this instance. Let her know you goofed, why, etc. Don't forget she's evidently was pretty blitzed herself and her boss is the lowest of the low in my opinion.