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Old 05-30-2005, 07:51 PM   #11 (permalink)
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Default Re: What should I say?

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Originally Posted by LikeMinds321
The boss made this move in front of her husband. I'd say he must have been pretty sure he could get by with it.
There may have been a vibe - a flirt - a wink... Maybe even from the wife...

...before she passed out...

Waiting for his "chance" and taking it only after she was under was not "swinger-like" at all to me.

Like you said - nothing makes this "right" - because the whole "consent" thing was removed from the wife. She didn't have a choice. But - I would like to think that the boss was more of leech than a possible swinger... I would hope that most swinging males would have more respect (even self-respect) than that.

You do bring up a good point - and if he is a swinger, then he needs to learn the common sense ettiquette (sp?).

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