[Spoomonkey]

I was going to say, "don't say a word, dude..."

The way the wives have responded here (and these are some open minded women) should give you a good idea of just how ugly it could get if you come clean. If I were in your shoes, I would immediately think about how short my couch is - how I know I'd sleep poorly on it - and how odd it would look on the lawn...

Then I thought - he's told somebody... Maybe somebody at work... And chances are the boss, and whoever he has told, aren't as open-minded and understanding - and may think conisderably less of her...

Not a good thing...

One of the things that I have learned about women who swing is that they are often deserving of more respect than the average woman.

She gives you a lot of trust - and counts on you to be there for her when she can't be there for herself... Bottom line is - you failed her... I wish I could think of a more delicate way to put it, but I have to be real here. You need to start rebuilding that trust before it gets totally blown away when/if she finds out what you did...

Cowboy up...

Spoomonkey