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Originally Posted by EvilMJ you did let her down...terribly. As a husband you are supposed to protect and care for your wife. Yes you have to face the music and talk to her....
All I can say is if I were in her position I would not be very forgiving for what happened. Be prepared to take the heat and own up to it...by not saying anythign you are going to make a bad situation horribly worse |
Yes, you let her down very badly. Marriage and the lifestlye are about trust. I trust Mr Spoo more than anyone else and he looks out for me all the time, especially in the lifestyle.
You need to tell her because if she finds out any other way she'll trust you even less, and be prepared because if it was me I would be pissed and it would take a long time for me to feel safe and trust again.
I agree that she needs to know, you and her boss do and since she has to see him every day how long will it be before the cat's out of the bag and then how will she feel.
You need to rethink your motives in this situation as well, of all the people you could have let do that to her, her boss was the worst. What a horrible feeling to go to work everyday and know what her boss did to her.
Tell her and tell her now and ask for her forgiveness. Good luck
Mrs Spoomonkey