The Swingers Board - View Single Post - Want to get to know people before swinging, but feeling rushed

WesternSwing · 05-30-2005, 01:16 PM

We have only had sex with one couple on the first date, and the stars, planets, and all their moons were aligned that night. We prefer to get to know someone better before getting naked with them. Sometimes this is two meetings, sometimes more. We just play it by ear and when the time is right, it is. I agree with others though that you pretty well know by the second meeting if it is ever going to happen or not.

We think getting to know others a little first takes some of the jitters out of it, therefore making a better experience for all involved. We have a steady couple that each and every time gets easier-going and more comfortable, which makes it easier to explore fantasies and makes "stage fright" less an issues with everyone involved.

My advice, there it no set rule. Play it by ear and let the chips fall where they may. Do what's comfortable for you. If a couple really is interested, you will hook-up sooner or later.

Mr. WS

05-30-2005, 01:16 PM	#10 (permalink)
WesternSwing South of disorder Join Date: Mar 2004 Posts: 2,973 Location: Utah Status: Single Male	Re: Time to get to know others..... We have only had sex with one couple on the first date, and the stars, planets, and all their moons were aligned that night. We prefer to get to know someone better before getting naked with them. Sometimes this is two meetings, sometimes more. We just play it by ear and when the time is right, it is. I agree with others though that you pretty well know by the second meeting if it is ever going to happen or not. We think getting to know others a little first takes some of the jitters out of it, therefore making a better experience for all involved. We have a steady couple that each and every time gets easier-going and more comfortable, which makes it easier to explore fantasies and makes "stage fright" less an issues with everyone involved. My advice, there it no set rule. Play it by ear and let the chips fall where they may. Do what's comfortable for you. If a couple really is interested, you will hook-up sooner or later. Mr. WS
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