The Swingers Board - View Single Post - Want to get to know people before swinging, but feeling rushed

twoferfun69 · 05-29-2005, 11:56 PM

Welcome!
Yes, I believe it is perfectly normal for you to experience the differences. I know when I was dating after my divorce, there were times when things happened right away, other times when it took quite some time. This, in my humble opinion, is no different. The chemistry may take time to develop, if it does at all. However, it may be "WHAM" these people are a great "fit". You shouldn't feel like a freak at all, in fact I think it's quite normal to have different timing patterns.
Good luck and have fun!!

05-29-2005, 11:56 PM	#2 (permalink)
twoferfun69 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Apr 2005 Posts: 166 Location: Cincinnati, Ohio Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:twoferfun69	Re: Time to get to know others..... Welcome! Yes, I believe it is perfectly normal for you to experience the differences. I know when I was dating after my divorce, there were times when things happened right away, other times when it took quite some time. This, in my humble opinion, is no different. The chemistry may take time to develop, if it does at all. However, it may be "WHAM" these people are a great "fit". You shouldn't feel like a freak at all, in fact I think it's quite normal to have different timing patterns. Good luck and have fun!!