 Want to get to know people before swinging, but feeling rushed
My husband and I are new to this lifestyle (about 3 months). My question is: Isn't it individual with each couple you meet how long it takes to become comfortable with being intimate? HOW commonplace is it that everyone is intimate on the second date? I am a type of person that likes to get to know the people first (I'm not talking about three months of dating every weekend, maybe 2-4 dates). That's part of the fun. I know people only have limited time to devote to their swinging LS due to family, jobs and life. But I feel rushed at times. I'm in swinging to enjoy people ON ALL LEVELS, not JUST sexually. I am an extremely loyal person when it comes to people. I have incredible passion for the human experience. I feel like some sort of freak because I'm not ready to jump into the pants of one couple but I was ready to go for it with another (after getting to know them and enjoying their personalities). How do you ask people for more time and not feel like a freak? I didn't do very much dating in my earlier days due to finding my husband when I was 18 AND wasting no time with guys when I did date them. I thank you in advance for all of your input.
Petite Pixey
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