Very good topic! We often feel very much the same when we see couples together. So many non-lifestyle couples we know get jealous over the wrong thing to easily. Heck, if only they really knew what we did when we get out! We often call each other to tell the other about the hot woman we saw with almost nothing on or a fantasy we have about the other with so and so. (and so and so and so
) Many relationships would not withstand the strain this would place on them. We are fortunate for what we have together, the love, trust and devotion to each other is one that only those like us can understand.
We have told a few vanilla friends about us. This usually is followed by alot of Q&A and "I could never do something like that". Deep in our minds we know they could but are afraid of what people might think.