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Originally Posted by Mrs Spoomonkey Weird how it seems that in the vanilla world they seem to think being jealous of each other is love. That is so sad. We see people get married at work and the women will make comments like "if he ever looks at another women"  Their married not dead! :rollseyes Oh, and then these same women will gossip around the office about the new 'hot' guy. It makes me sick sometimes to see this and listen to everyone bash their husbands.
That is the very reason that most of our friends are lifestyle friends and we don't hang out with work people.
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It's true. It makes the vanilla world a little more lonely sometimes. It's difficult to chime in on a girls night out when they all start carrying on about who's jealous of whom...at least not without giving us away. Frankly, I'd LOVE the opportunity to just 'out' us and be done with it. Let them gasp. Let their jaws drop. Let their delicate sensibilities be offended. Whatever. Unfortunately, as a parent and a working mom, I don't have the luxury of this kind of satisfaction. I dislike needing to keep things under cover. After thinking about it, I've decided that no, I don't get off on the naughty secrecy aspect. I'd rather just be naughty way out in the open. Our take on marriage doesn't meld well with most vanilla's points of view.