[newgentry]

You know, Spoo, its funny how different groups of people can perceive the same folks in different ways. Just like you and Mrs. Spoo, the missus and I are also known as the cute, hand-holding, kissy face couple. But through the grapevine we've found out that a lot of the vanilla folks have come to "suspect" that there's something hidden beneath our veneer. The reason? Because we don't share the sometimes over the top jealousies that are so prevalent amongst our vanilla world friends. If we're at a vanilla gathering we'll be the ones innocently flirting with folks or dragging someone else's spouse out on the dance floor. You should see some of the looks I got when, at a Christmas party, I cornered a friends wife under the mistletoe. Mind you, we don't do this constantly, but the mere fact that we would "dare" to do something like that has us "branded" in a lot of people's minds. To us its just totally innocent fun - to others we're committing a cardinal sin. Candidly, it drives us crazy sometimes.