I thought there was a "General Swinger" forum but I couldn't find it so I decdided to post it here...
I have posted before (A few times) about a couple friend of ours who I over heard the "she" of the couple telling her boyfriend that she "knew" about us and she didn't want him to expect her to do "That".
Anyway,
Mrs Naughty and I were over their house tonight and it was just the four of us.
She asked if she could ask us a personal question (looking at me, Mr naughty).
We said sure (Both thinking in our minds "Here it comes...") .
She said "How do you guys do it?"
I said "Do what?"
She said "How do you guys do what you do with out having a problem with it?"
At this point it was obvious to all of us what she was talking about (She was at Mrs Naughties birthday party the night before, which put the icing on the cake
)
I told her that I don't have any jealousy issues and it is all about having a good time.
Then she says that she was raised differently than that and didn't understand.
I told her that we weren't raised any differently than her and that it took a long time in our relationship to get to the point that we are at.
I told her that it took us getting to the point where we were both secure enough in our relationship to be honest enough with each other to open up our desires to one another.
She said she still didn't understand and don't expect her to do it.
She wasn't being a bitch about it and we all understood the conversation. It ended there and we went about the rest of the night like old friends.