Re: Size intimidation: How do you relax?
My Wife and I are fairly new by about three months and one of the fears I had was the possibility of hooking up with a guy that was bigger than I am.
I'm only 5" and wished I was thicker but my biggest fear was that if I were to have sex with her right after a big dick she would be loose or something along that ... or as in some have stated here that my size wouldn't feel the same anymore.
Well I have to tell you she has had a guy 8" and thick enough she can't get her fingers to touch when holding it ... she has had this guy on a regular bases ( I loved seeing that BTW) and I have told her I prefer to go 2nd in fact I would takes seconds after a big cock ANY day.
I found that she is swollen and so sensitive that sticking my finger in her will get her off ... so it is way more exciting to have that added sensitivity ... oh and she got to experience her very first orgasm with intercourse while doing this guy and now she gets off every time with me as well as multiple orgasms .
The other thing to keep in mind ... just as others have stated only YOU will know what really gets her ... I do find that I have to be more creative and maybe work harder than a guy with a big package but that is part of the fun .. the bigger guys usually only know how to push it in and out and mostly rely on their size .. they have never been able to experience trying to shoot for the g'spot or moving it around trying different things.
I would rather see my Wife with a bigger cock any day ;-) ... OHHHH YA
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