<-- scratching head Did I read this right? Too tight?
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Originally Posted by Unregistered I've been told by both my hubby and a few play partners that I'm 'too tight'. Not all complain, just hubby and a few others, the rest seem to find it quite delightful. lol But I'm willing to do whatever it takes except surgery to try to remedy this. |
Speaking for THIS man..... Tight is a GREAT thing. Don't change a thing!!
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Originally Posted by Unregistered Granted I have never had a child vaginally(c section) and have done kegals since 1977 but is there such a thing as 'too tight'? |
Absolutly not!
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Originally Posted by Unregistered Hubby says I've been 'tight' throughout our 30yr marriage, it's not just something new.
I just never had anyone to ask before. Thank you swingerboard!!
I am not young-I'm 53 and post menopausal; so I don't think at this point my anatomy will be changing anytime soon. I still produce plenty of lubrication so that's not the problem but we have tried adding even more with no benefit.
I can use a rather large dildo so anatomically I'm not defective or deformed. lol My gynecologist can use the regular size speculum so again, it doesn't seem from a medical standpoint that I'm abnormal.
I am a very responsive partner who can have multiple orgasms per encounter.
So it's not like I'm just 'freezing up' and tightening down. I've stopped doing the kegals-3mos now and still things haven't relaxed or loosened up.
Any ideas, suggestions, others who have something similar?
Thanks
K |
K, please go back to doing Kegals... listen this [b][i]Lifestyle[i][b] is about mutual pleasure thiers and YOURS, perhaps as you stated, "nothing else seems wrong down there anatomically" that they are doing/not doing somthing that the others are which is allowing you take them. Elasticity in that region allows it to strecth larger then any humans girth could ever strecth it so don't fret, they're just doing somthing wrong.
-C