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We only have once with a couple we've known for years who didn't swing until us. Otherwise I don't know we would have considered it. I don't feel like I'm losing that much by having a condom used (but then again I'm not the guy) so the benefits outweigh the risks. Even though the chances are small of contracting something I would never forgive myself and I would never be able to go back and do it over again.