CoupleinCanada,
In our case, we let it be known right up front that we only swing together as a team. If anyone wants only one or the other of us, then they need to look elsewhere. Just being friends is great, and friendships are hard to find these days anyhow. We have also met couples where we just don't "jive" with both people.... we just don't encourage anything more than friendly chat, no matter how much we'd like to get together with the other one who we like. There's a lot more out there to choose from, and you'll find the right couple soon. Like michigancouple
said, swinging is for mutual pleasure. Good luck!!
Ron, Husband of Stratecpl
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