[vbrunkenobi]

Some great posts here. Talking with my wife (I am between 7-8) that sometimes I am too large for her, usually when I am extremely turned on. During those occasions, it actually hurts both of us a little bit. I have learned to adjust my sexual performance to the situation. More often than not I am at just about 7 and that ends up being perfect for both of us. No when I am at the other end (8), I have to keep myself from entering her fully and she is not able to take me all the way orally.

I have to agree that largeness is more a novelty. It can actually be a curse sometimes. As for intimidation, well, knowing what I know, I would have to echo those above and reassure you that for the larger sizes, it is all novelty and a hell of alot less useful. I hope that this helps you and yours. - Mike