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clit pro poet · 05-22-2005, 03:22 AM

JennandJamesinm wrote "...for me the sensual aspect far outweighs anything else. Also, I know that I will be there because one of our "rules" (thanks for the great advice!!!) is that we are a same room couple. The first time you saw your partner with another person, how did you feel, what was your reaction to it?"

(Mr. writing this one) I've wondered why something that most couples wouldn't be bothered with - or worse, somethng way over the top (sic) - feels comfortable, natural and fun (!) to me. In the way-back past, Mrs. experienced loss of affections in couples that she knew as close friends. I did not. My experiences ranged from same room with a small crowd of acquaintances and friends, to private visits. That was then.
Nowadays, the satisfaction of past, present, and future life with her has lead me to think sexually as a couple almost all the time. This was surprising to realize, and nice, and, potentially, comfortable to share, if that's what we feel like. The sensual aspect IS a wonder, and if tricky emotions come up, you have familiar, loving, hands right there to let your concentration get back to what you're doing.
Good thread! Enjoyed every post. 'Hope this one helps too.

05-22-2005, 03:22 AM	#11 (permalink)
clit pro poet Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Apr 2005 Posts: 247 Location: deep south Status: couple	Re: Emotions to swinging......what were yours? JennandJamesinm wrote "...for me the sensual aspect far outweighs anything else. Also, I know that I will be there because one of our "rules" (thanks for the great advice!!!) is that we are a same room couple. The first time you saw your partner with another person, how did you feel, what was your reaction to it?" (Mr. writing this one) I've wondered why something that most couples wouldn't be bothered with - or worse, somethng way over the top (sic) - feels comfortable, natural and fun (!) to me. In the way-back past, Mrs. experienced loss of affections in couples that she knew as close friends. I did not. My experiences ranged from same room with a small crowd of acquaintances and friends, to private visits. That was then. Nowadays, the satisfaction of past, present, and future life with her has lead me to think sexually as a couple almost all the time. This was surprising to realize, and nice, and, potentially, comfortable to share, if that's what we feel like. The sensual aspect IS a wonder, and if tricky emotions come up, you have familiar, loving, hands right there to let your concentration get back to what you're doing. Good thread! Enjoyed every post. 'Hope this one helps too. Last edited by clit pro poet : 05-22-2005 at 03:24 AM.